Hey folks,
I wanted to mention a few things I have noticed about larping over the years and again this event.
There are snuggle parties, cuddle pile-ups, and lap sitting galore among PCs and NPCs. This I have witnessed over the years in many larps. This is usually done with people who feel comfortable with each other and have expressed permission to do so. We are a mature game with mature themes.
However, permission is the key word. Many people are not comfortable with touching, even sometimes with close friends. We are a community who respects boundaries. Even if you mean to simply give a reassuring hug or a small pat on someone's back, they might not feel comfortable with this. Please ask. Also apologize if you forget to ask and find yourself doing this. I was guilty of this myself, even though I did it out of compassion. This does not make it ok and I apologized.
Furthermore, dialogue can be just as off-putting to someone and can be seen as borderline/blatant sexual harassment. Be mindful of what you say both in and out of game. Be respectful of one another. Our game is not the environment to discuss/debate with strangers you've just met the topics of sexual identity/gender/preference/lifestyles/politics/religion... or any other topic that might make people feel uncomfortable.
In addition, sexual harassment will not be tolerated at Alliance Denver and actions will be taken if I receive reports of sexual harassment taking place at our events. We have created a wonderful and friendly community and I will strive to keep this family as a safe environment for all.
I urge you to contact customer service if you were involved in such an incident so that we may act.
Thank you for listening,
Jesse
I wanted to mention a few things I have noticed about larping over the years and again this event.
There are snuggle parties, cuddle pile-ups, and lap sitting galore among PCs and NPCs. This I have witnessed over the years in many larps. This is usually done with people who feel comfortable with each other and have expressed permission to do so. We are a mature game with mature themes.
However, permission is the key word. Many people are not comfortable with touching, even sometimes with close friends. We are a community who respects boundaries. Even if you mean to simply give a reassuring hug or a small pat on someone's back, they might not feel comfortable with this. Please ask. Also apologize if you forget to ask and find yourself doing this. I was guilty of this myself, even though I did it out of compassion. This does not make it ok and I apologized.
Furthermore, dialogue can be just as off-putting to someone and can be seen as borderline/blatant sexual harassment. Be mindful of what you say both in and out of game. Be respectful of one another. Our game is not the environment to discuss/debate with strangers you've just met the topics of sexual identity/gender/preference/lifestyles/politics/religion... or any other topic that might make people feel uncomfortable.
In addition, sexual harassment will not be tolerated at Alliance Denver and actions will be taken if I receive reports of sexual harassment taking place at our events. We have created a wonderful and friendly community and I will strive to keep this family as a safe environment for all.
I urge you to contact customer service if you were involved in such an incident so that we may act.
Thank you for listening,
Jesse
