SorinKatt
Artisan
From: A Brief Treatise of the Tiatarn Wedding Customs
“In ages past, it was considered Fortuitous to sit close to the bride and groom on the day of their wedding. Fate, it was believed smiled upon the couple on such a momentous day and the thought was, that sitting near would allow some of that good fortune to rub off on those fortunate enough to be in proximity.
In a more practical sense sitting close to a couple, especially in more lavish events would often provide the lucky person with opportunities both business and socially that might not otherwise be afforded and therefore the seats close to the wedding party were often considered coveted. So much so, in point of fact, that tradition arose over time to bribe the Captain of the Honor Guard, who, in traditional Tiatarin weddings is responsible for seating and the smooth running of the event, for a seat closer to the Wedding party.
As we have cultured and tempered over the years the tradition of bribing for a closer seat, or `Paying the Shift` as it was often referred to in more frank circles, has moved away from a practice of enriching the Captain of the Honor guard to a more accepted tradition of charity.
Among more common weddings, but those big enough to traditionally merit a Paying of the Shift the money would be given to the Bride and Groom to help set up their new life together. In the case of more Aristocratic and Noble weddings the proceeds of the Shift are traditionally donated in the couples name to a worthy charity.
By tradition when a person has been unseated by a Shift, the Honor Guard Captain will approach the person so unseated (Assuming that the bribe meets the standard to unseat someone of that rank or previous shift) and state ‘[Honorific], you have been shifted by necessity.’ The person so shifted is obligated to comply politely or reply with the statement ‘This seat suits me, perhaps I can compel you to allow me to remain’ They may make a single offer of shift and if it is more than that being offered by the person requesting the shift, than the original payment is returned and the seat retained. It is considered the highest of impropriety to attempt to shift more than once at a reception.”
“In ages past, it was considered Fortuitous to sit close to the bride and groom on the day of their wedding. Fate, it was believed smiled upon the couple on such a momentous day and the thought was, that sitting near would allow some of that good fortune to rub off on those fortunate enough to be in proximity.
In a more practical sense sitting close to a couple, especially in more lavish events would often provide the lucky person with opportunities both business and socially that might not otherwise be afforded and therefore the seats close to the wedding party were often considered coveted. So much so, in point of fact, that tradition arose over time to bribe the Captain of the Honor Guard, who, in traditional Tiatarin weddings is responsible for seating and the smooth running of the event, for a seat closer to the Wedding party.
As we have cultured and tempered over the years the tradition of bribing for a closer seat, or `Paying the Shift` as it was often referred to in more frank circles, has moved away from a practice of enriching the Captain of the Honor guard to a more accepted tradition of charity.
Among more common weddings, but those big enough to traditionally merit a Paying of the Shift the money would be given to the Bride and Groom to help set up their new life together. In the case of more Aristocratic and Noble weddings the proceeds of the Shift are traditionally donated in the couples name to a worthy charity.
By tradition when a person has been unseated by a Shift, the Honor Guard Captain will approach the person so unseated (Assuming that the bribe meets the standard to unseat someone of that rank or previous shift) and state ‘[Honorific], you have been shifted by necessity.’ The person so shifted is obligated to comply politely or reply with the statement ‘This seat suits me, perhaps I can compel you to allow me to remain’ They may make a single offer of shift and if it is more than that being offered by the person requesting the shift, than the original payment is returned and the seat retained. It is considered the highest of impropriety to attempt to shift more than once at a reception.”
Argus Dumur
Historian, Three Spires
Historian, Three Spires