I just want to clarify my thoughts on Friday after reading a few other reviews. My only frustration came with the lack of information out NPCs seemingly had about the mod going into it, stopping half way through to get it sorted, and then not knowing about if it was a portal or a rift then suddenly being told we couldn't rejoin the fight even though we had no idea what was going on having passed an invisible barrior.
The rush of getting a rescue party together, the whole town being involved, us blowing through all our life spells and other resources, all that in game confusion is all on the players. If you look at it from an in game perspective we shouldn'talways able to formulate a good, well thought out plan, and sometimes have to wing it. Thats how an adventuring life would actually work. This is when leaders need to stand up and say hey the dark reaches is a bad place and its confusing to take a large group, we will take 6. Or hey let's make sure that we take people who will listen and not run off in the scary places. Or who will say screw it let's take eveveryone and see where the dice land.
Not every fight will be well balanced and fair or stacked to our advantage. There are times where we will be the weaker ones, and once again that requires planning on our part. Means a different set of skills may be needed, or we distract the bad thing so a stronger one of us can hit it. Do I get frustrated when my 4 normal swings do no effect, yes, am I scared when something swings 10s, or chaos, or deaths, f yes I am scared. But that means I approach it from a angle, not get mad that its stronger then i am.
I'm glad Friday's rescue went the way it did, sans losing a person of course. It showed us how unprepared we are as a group when poop hits the fan. Then look at Sunday when we actually held the line, and people followed orders. It worked out very well in game.
All I'm saying is take Friday for the learning experience it could be. Also think of stuff from an in game point of view. We are adventurers. We are fighting necromancers and fae and magical creatures from beyond. They will he stronger, there will be more of them, and they will put number us. But this will help people learn to control their panic and think on thier feet more.