Lisa_Clare said:
Yeah, that was me... sorry if I sounded rude at all - that wasn't my intention.
*I* didn't interpret it as rude, (but then I have the same problem with people misunderstanding my intentions, so I get why you feel like you may need to justify it) Like I said - I actually applaud that you spoke up about it.
Since you were refering to hours during the day that would explain why everyone seemed confused. The group thought you were talking about right that moment. Was this by the campfire or elsewhere? I knew at lunch I was semi-oog because Tess we had the cooler out and we were trying to roast hotdogs, but we were still in character (Though I know you weren't talking about me, specifically, I'm just thinking back to see if I contributed to the comment at all.) - I don't know much about any other OOG conversation during the tournament day, however I'm usually with the Imperials who are nearly always in-game, so it may have not been where I was.
but If conversations around the fire are always IG then we could not have feasably gotten away with what we did.
My concern with this is it's hard to tell who is IG or OOG with the current behaviour at the fire pit, and people seem to flip in and out at will. The only time I have *ever* seen someone in a white headband at the fire pit has either been Staff/NPCs, and Klangar's wife (although it was dark and I mistook it for her orange page one until she switched back into it, so I didn't realise she was OOG - but the credit here is she WAS wearing it.) Want to be OOG? Fine! White headband up, so that those who ARE in game know who is part of which conversation, none of this in-betweenness where I'm in the middle of a conversation only to find it's gone OOG and now I have to choose between being 'stuck' OOG or basically suddenly leaving a conversation IG that I would probably not otherwise have a reason to leave.
People IG want to be by the fire too (especially since it's were most of the activity seems to be after midnight between battles.)
You would be surprised about how much you miss on a weekend untill its recapped for you.
There are a LOT of things I learned that once I understood certain context OOG was like OMG! For example, Math very strongly believes Victor was cheated - however he had NOT heard the rumour about the baron's manor being robbed! I learned about THAT OOG, and OOG I know that Math is cluelessly in the dark about a lot of things, but I can keep IG and OOG separate (however, again, if I'm at the fire pit In character, and Dayna starts talking about how he took the plates, and I don't know if he's in character or out of character - I have no idea on which side of that divide to apply the knowledge. Hence,
use your headbands!)