I play a non-combat semi-pacifist alt in Seattle, due to back injuries, I've had no problems getting involved in plot, getting invited on mods or getting engaged with other players, and I am by nature more than a bit of an introvert. It does require you to step out and get yourself involved. Talk to people, especially new players and NPC's, make up plot, currently I'm investing in apple farms, buying barrels from local townies, hunting down produce to start a cidery/winery, practicing phrenology, doing the books for the town guard and other things I should probably be hesitant to mention around inquiring ears. Also he merchants whatever he can get his hands on.
It can be incredibly rewarding and fun, though there are times where I want to jump into combat, or I would prefer to play my other PC and skulk around in the woods and not have to keep talking to people. Playing a pacifist definitely requires some work on your part, give it a try, if you don't like it, wander around in the woods and get eaten by a corrupt, then you'll have a reason to change your ways
It can be incredibly rewarding and fun, though there are times where I want to jump into combat, or I would prefer to play my other PC and skulk around in the woods and not have to keep talking to people. Playing a pacifist definitely requires some work on your part, give it a try, if you don't like it, wander around in the woods and get eaten by a corrupt, then you'll have a reason to change your ways