I care what you think, Friend Ian. I simply did not wish for the conversation to be about something that has not happened.
It is true, with the loss that we have experienced, choices that are made as a result may not be the best for us, or for the ones around us even though we think that they are. Or perhaps we simply do not care anymore... And perhaps we should try to reason with that person if it is needed.
But, sometimes it is also best to stand by someone once their decision has been made rather than simply deny them. To say that while you do not agree, and wish they would take time to think through, that you will support them. When they can not be swayed by reason, or friendship, and be there to pick them up when they have fallen.
Both you and Friend Zeth have your reasons behind your beliefs and your actions. And I have faith that both of you would attempt to reason with someone you care for if it seems that their actions will do more harm than good. Especially if that harm will come at the cost of their spirit.
The Sacrifice Ritual is a gift of your life for another's, and is cast and given for a variety of reasons. Some that can be seen as good, or bad. Some that may seem hasty or ill-advised. But at the moment, that discussion is between Zeth and the person who is requesting the ritual. And if there are any concerns as to the persons mind-set or intentions, it is to Zeth to have that discussion with them. And again, I trust his judgement as far as that situation goes.