Ardos
Artisan
Kai and Saro,
While I understand that blood can run hot, let me apparently explain something to you. There is a time for public displays of loyalty and outrage, and a time to politely and privately discuss things. You both need to learn which is appropriate at a given time.
Kai,
I only just met you and I know you mean well but the first flareup declared that none of us were doing anything to help, and to suggest that my family and I weren't looking after cyn is a direct affront to our honor. I have seen clan members kill someone for far less, so consider my patience and your apology "damage done" and drop it. Use some context clues next time and when the owner says "no aggresive or legal action" meant she was attempting civilty and threatening lives might do the opposite.
Saro,
I spoke to you about it that night, Cyn corrected it that evening, and the matter was not even brought up to Radi himself when you saw him in your homeland. Let's talk about public vs private again shall we? If you wanted public, directly confronting him would have been better, in your lands the rights would have been on your side, and you already know that Cyn and myself wouldn't have let it get too heated, but you took a different path. Accusing someone through the dreaming in public to do who knows what, and again suggesting that nothing was done and the problem is still hovering. Radi isn't going to randomly kill you. You admit to the reason, the only loss was my mother's spell and your pride, but yes it was more harsh than needed I'm sure.
If either of you still have a problem, why don't you practice the private aspect of dreaming and come to us specifically instead of dragging my family's good name through the dirt. We get enough of that from people who we dislike, and don't need it from people who want to be our "friends".
Understand what you are doing before you do it.
Ardos Irani
Selunari Defender
While I understand that blood can run hot, let me apparently explain something to you. There is a time for public displays of loyalty and outrage, and a time to politely and privately discuss things. You both need to learn which is appropriate at a given time.
Kai,
I only just met you and I know you mean well but the first flareup declared that none of us were doing anything to help, and to suggest that my family and I weren't looking after cyn is a direct affront to our honor. I have seen clan members kill someone for far less, so consider my patience and your apology "damage done" and drop it. Use some context clues next time and when the owner says "no aggresive or legal action" meant she was attempting civilty and threatening lives might do the opposite.
Saro,
I spoke to you about it that night, Cyn corrected it that evening, and the matter was not even brought up to Radi himself when you saw him in your homeland. Let's talk about public vs private again shall we? If you wanted public, directly confronting him would have been better, in your lands the rights would have been on your side, and you already know that Cyn and myself wouldn't have let it get too heated, but you took a different path. Accusing someone through the dreaming in public to do who knows what, and again suggesting that nothing was done and the problem is still hovering. Radi isn't going to randomly kill you. You admit to the reason, the only loss was my mother's spell and your pride, but yes it was more harsh than needed I'm sure.
If either of you still have a problem, why don't you practice the private aspect of dreaming and come to us specifically instead of dragging my family's good name through the dirt. We get enough of that from people who we dislike, and don't need it from people who want to be our "friends".
Understand what you are doing before you do it.
Ardos Irani
Selunari Defender
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