Okay...I'm a little late to this game, and as a general rule, I really REALLY like to avoid OOC drama and politics as much as possible. That said, I've noted that this is an issue and do have some opinions...so since everyone else is throwing their pennies in the fountain, I thought I'd add mine.
Please know it isn't my intention to offend or target anyone, my hope is always to make the game better not worse, so here goes.
My initial reaction to this thread was one of anger. Well, maybe just annoyance. I, for one, feel that trying things like excluding nobles does nothing but enrich the game, adding layers and making it better. While I also agree with what several others have said in that it would really be a bad idea ICly and would certainly have consequences for the people trying to exclude said nobility, I also feel the need to point out that trying tell a noble "We're sorry, but you can't be in here" would also force said noble into a situation where they were forced to engage in RP with people that they might not normally engage in RP with. I'm not suggesting that EVERY noble player in game specifically avoids interaction with us "lesser class" types, but I wouldn't feel right with myself if I didn't admit that I have noticed a select few who seem to avoid us like the plague.
(Bad news, guys, the plague? It's everywhere. There's no avoiding it. /Sorrynotsorry)
I have no idea how my character (Alis, for those apparently dozens of people who don't recognize me without black lipstick) would handle a seedy bar. I suspect she'd have to be dragged in and once inside, she'd sit perched at the end of her chair, feeling acutely uncomfortable and wondering if she could make the people inside better, somehow. (Or Skeld and Katya would get her ridiculously drunk and she'd start dealing poker.) That said, shouldn't this be a thing that SHOULD be reacted to in character and not out of character? Isn't it our responsibility, as players, to be able to handle this sort of outrage in a manner that befits our enjoyment of the game itself? Again, I'm not trying to fight, or pick on anyone, but I really don't feel that this issue should be an OOC issue -at all-. Someone else said basically that someone is always going to feel excluded from something. I, like Brook, tend to make my own fun when I start feeling excluded, rather than letting myself slip into a state of grouch because I'm not getting to take part in something. Because, as much as people hate being excluded, people are also going to be upset about being forcibly -included- (and I'm going to use the tournament as an example for that).
In September, the entire weekend was overrun with contests, games, and spectating. I've heard lots of folks muttering in annoyance (myself included, TOTALLY guilty) about the fact that there was "nothing" to do if you weren't competing. When I found out that there had been mods to do and such, I felt very abashed. But I also recognized that I couldn't have really done any of them, because most of the people who'd usually take part in mods were fighting in the tournament. My point here is that you can't please everyone, so my suggestion would be to find what makes you happy, as a player, and do that thing. If that means playing an uppity noble who looks down on lower classes, super! If you want to join the Scions and run naked through the woods (or whatever it is they do), great! If you want to go mod-hunting at four am (FOUR AM?! What is WRONG with you people??), fantastic! My point is, if you really can't find -anything- to do, you're not trying hard enough, folks. I mean, I fill up almost every weekend event with just social RP, intrigue, fervent debates about peace and stealing Tiatar's food (well okay, they technically invited me). And I have an honestly great time. As a player I have basically zero interest in fighting, big battles, politics and other such shenanigans. But I still enjoy this game because of what I bring to it, and what it brings to me.
But I digress.
The original point of this thread was player exclusion (I think. I've honestly gotten a bit lost with all the back and forth. I am not fast.). I would be lying if I said I'd never felt excluded (as I mentioned above), and I've certainly heart others talking about that at length, and often. And in fact, there are characters that I (as a player and as Alis) loathe with every fiber of my being, but I like their players just fine. I have faith that the intention of any player is never specifically to rule out an entire group of people. That may not be true, but I'm choosing to believe the best of my fellows. We, as the lower class, are not trying to prevent other players from having fun...we are only trying to create fun for ourselves. The world of Alliance is so rich and deep that the possibilities are there. We just have to find them. Just because nobility says "You can't do that" doesn't mean we can't. I always say "Play your character. Be true to the person you've created", and that stands here just as it does almost anywhere else. If a noble comes up to Alis and says "I order you to kill that person" she's going to look them dead in the eye and politely invite them to go to hell. And she will face consequences. But I will have been true to my character.
This isn't about exclusion. It's not a dodgeball game in gradeschool where the least popular kid is the last picked for the team. I know it feels that way, but I promise it's not. No one is trying to stick it to anyone, we're just trying to create opportunities for greater game enrichment. That's why the subject of a tent-village came up. We're envisioning a giant collection of lower class folks camped together. It will be a place I fully expect nobility to feel uncomfortable walking into. I hope (as a player) that the white belts hesitate to cross the threshold, even if invited. Why? Because it's RP! Because roleplay drama is best drama, guys. If you cross the threshold of a seedy bar, or a barbarian (um, excuse me, Leora, it's -free men-, okay?) tent camp, you should feel a chill of discomfort trickle down your spine. "Are these people going to try to kill me? If I scream, will anyone hear me? Can I trust them? Can I convince them to trust -me-?"
The world we play in can only improve. The key to all of this is earnest communication (in and out of character) without accusation and anger. I'm not going to lie, I'm a little concerned that there may be a tiny bit of "I am so wonderful, and I expect you to recognize how absolutely amazing I am" going on with a few of the noble players (again, I am NOT naming names). And while I've had zero issues personally (IC or OOC) it's something that's gotten my notice and I feel it's worth being concerned over. At the end of the day, it's a game, and who your character is has no bearing at all over whether or not I like or dislike you OOC. And if this personality were strictly IC, I wouldn't say a word about it, but it seems to be trickling into OOC and I feel like it should be mentioned as a possible thought of why people are getting so cranky about the nobility as a "thing".
To wrap up (and I apologize...I swore I wouldn't write a lengthy reply, having read so many, but apparently I'm a chatty one.) I do feel that as noble players, you have a responsibility to include other players (which is something I deeply struggled with when I played a vampire Prince) to some extent. I know Jules strives to force plot upon others as often as possible, and I've noticed a few others doing so as well which is really great. That said, I'm not entirely certain it's being done in an effective way. Chivalry school, for example, draws in many people, but not everyone is interested in such discussions, so it might be smart to find other ways to include folks, whenever possible. It might be wise to establish an in character discussion with some of the "commoners" about this, keeping it IC as I suggested before.
Honestly, guys, I'm cool. I enjoy this game and at least 98% of it's players (*grins impishly, slowly stirring the pot). At the end of the day, I've never left a weekend event feeling like I'd been gipped or screwed as a player, but I also admit that I spend very little time obsessing over stats, points, politics or plot. I engage in those things, but I try hard to recognize that these things are complicated, and I'm probably too lazy as a player to get passionate about any of it. But I'm always happy to express what I've heard or observed as a way to make the game better and my fellow players happier. Because the more happy players there are, the better, right?
Right?
I know, I'm a genius, it's cool.