I think it's somewhat insulting that people who barely knew Mara are trying to speak of what she might or might not want as if they knew her.
I knew Mara, taught Mara, learned from Mara, found myself saved from blade and spell more often than I can count by Mara, and as a person who pulled Mara's Spirit through the Circle on several occasions, hoping each time would be the last time I'd have to meet her there -- breathing silent wishes that her Spirit would be strong enough, that my story would be good enough to bring her home to us -- and that she'd live to see a time safe enough that she could live to be an old, wizened soldier, regailing village children with tales of battles she'd seen, heroes she'd fought alongside -- my heart is broken by this news.
I am sorry I wasn't there for you this time Mara. I am sorry your Spirit could not find its way back to us.
But my own tears aside, I think this is a silly argument. Most of you didn't know Mara well -- so it's silly of you to try and guess what you think she'd want. How can you know?
I knew Mara very well, and I do not know that I can say with any more certainty than most what I think she'd want, given the current situation, and everyone's arguments considered. Your impressions of what she may or may not have wanted are just that -- impressions. You have to consider them based on any number of factors, and even then they're just guesses. Educated or otherwise.
I do think, however, that she'd have been very touched to see how much she meant to people, even in the short times she knew them.
So consider not Mara -- but what you want. What you think is best. If you cared for Mara enough to name the town for her -- then do so. I think it's a lovely idea, and a good homage to an adventurer who helped found the town itself with her blade, heart, and determination. If you don't want to do that, then don't -- but don't pretend it's because you don't think Mara would want it. You don't know what she'd want. Once the town is named, it will be named -- put on to maps and onto the tongues of every child, farmhand, wandering merchant, and anyone else who has reason to know where the patch of land that was once Fort Miller is located, and what became of it.
I think regardless of what the decision is, some things are immutable - a good and gallant woman and friend is gone forever, having died in battle -- which is how most of our lot find themselves at the end. I think this no less sad, but somehow fitting for a woman who lived by the ideals of the soldier. Given the myriad of ways one can meet the end -- I think this is one of the few that suited her best. Did her the most justice.
Who was there with her at the end? Both on the field, and then finally in the circle. I would like to know the entire story. Where was her body buried? Please send me a pigeon, and let me know.